About | Deeply Connected

Hi, I'm Yulia

I am a relationship transformation coach and a recovering transformation junkie :)

As I was nearing my 50th birthday I faced, what I evidently feared the most and tried to avoid for well over a decade, namely the dissolution of a 22 years relationship.

I did everything in my power to avoid it...

I drunk and vomited lots of Ayahuaska..
meditated for hours each day... did yoga, tantra, embodiment practices..
read countless books, learned different personality theories..
spend tens of thousands of dollars and countless hours trying to heal all the shadow parts of myself..

And while these practices and transformation experiences made me wiser, they could not heal what was not meant to be healed.

As a transformation junkie (and a deep psyche diver) I fancied myself aware of what was going on..

And in a way I was. (as was everyone close to me..)
But there was a part of me so afraid of the consequences of the truth, that I felt powerless and stuck.. unable to change the relationship to be remotely what I wanted it to be and unable to leave.

In the end, when we could no longer spend even a few hours together without horrible and pointless verbal conflicts, the relationship has dissolved.

In all truth, I feel the universe finally took pity on us both and forced the separation that neither of us wanted, but was inevitable and completely necessary for our sanity.

💔

I did everything I could to save my relationship, but I never worked with a coach long enough to be able to hear the truth I was trying to avoid. I believe that if I did, they could have saved me years of pain and suffering and guide me on a much more direct path toward the relationship I have longed for.

Today I have a new relationship that looks very different, and I now know very viscerally what was missing in the previous one and why it had to end.

I know what a good relationship feels like.

And I also know how painful it feels to be in a relationship where the love is real but the relationship is not working.

I have wandered in the fog of not knowing my own truth, in this one area of my life, for a long time.

I know the terrain of the relationship fog from the inside.

If you are feeling stuck, unsure of your next step, I can help you see your own truth.

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If you are reading this and thinking, great another person that tells me I need to leave, know that I don't believe in one size fits all. Many people leave way too soon, without giving the relationship all that it deserves; but some - myself included - stay too long.

If you are in the fog, not sure should you stay or should you go, the answer is inside you, and I am here to help you uncover your own truth.