You love him. He loves you.
But the relationship is not working.
You long to be met. And you are not.
You love deeply.
You have worked on yourself.
You have tried.
But the relationship is still not working.
You don't want to leave, but you can't go on like this.
Something must change, but you don't know what.
So much of the advice out there is to leave, but you know people often leave too soon.
You wonder, should I stay or should I go?
You have no clear answer.
Yet you know, no one can or should tell you what to do.
I’ve been there before..
In fact, I spent well over a decade driven by the desire to make my relationship work.
I delved deep into my psyche...
drunk and vomited (lots of) Ayahusca..
went on tantric retreats..
did shamanic journey's.. embodiment practices.. silence retreats... yoga..
meditation..
cried..
a lot!
spent tens of thousands of dollars on many things I hoped will fix me...
Until I learned I was never broken.
And while all these things made me wiser, they were not enough for me to face the deeper truth.
The truth I knew but was unwilling to face.
It took a decade and a half of deep transformation - and still unwilling to know what I knew - until the universe took pity on me and forced me to see what I did my best to avoid.
I've learned many things through this journey, but most importantly I learned that you can only heal relationship issues within a relationship.
And if your intimate relationship does not work, and you feel stuck and powerless to either change it or leave..
it is best to work in relationship with a human mirror.
Someone who have been there before..
who knows the terrain..
who can see what you can not (or will not!)
someone who can guide you and hold your feet to the fire,
in these places where it counts the most.
You do not have to do it alone.
I wish I knew this sooner.
Hi, I'm Yulia
A mirror and guide through the fog of intimate relationships.
I know this terrain from the inside. I was lost in the fog for 15 years until I found my way out.
I believe we know the truth deep inside, but sometimes it is hard for us to access it on our own.
I offer 1:1 sessions to help you become conscious of your own truth. I have no agenda. I offer my presence, my experience of knowing the terrain and my ability to show you where you are at - so you can find your own truth in your own time.
